Childhood Friend Complex

And I absolutely disagree with your opinion entirely. Have you perhaps by any chance heard of the word “growth” And human vulnerability to emotions. Yes they slept together in the heat of lust sleeping together doesn’t mean everything is fixed you’ve overcom yourself it’s just a temporary feeling of ecstasy. We all know how they both had feelings for each other since childhood and have realized now. He denied his own feelings to himself first as he said he isn’t ready to move forward to take the responsibility for their future because of his past he thinks he is gonna ruin everything.. Being abandoned by her is his biggest fear which we will come to see fading away slowly as the story progress. And she’s just someone who goes for what they want there’s no need to over think when you know each other feelings even so I think they are healing each other.. As for love as everybody is different and have distinct perspectives their ways of loving is different too. There’s no standards for love by which you can impose judgment on characters. Everybody embodies different personalities as well dissimilar ways of showing how much they care, love and want them. Mincheol has to overcome himself he is a man drowned in the ghosts of his past afraid to move forward because he is stuck there he simply thinks he’s unworthy ” Where as she thinks that having a physical relationship makes them closer when that man has shut himself from the inside completely he doesn’t need to change he needs to evolve and I say only she can help him because she is the only person who can maybe barely pursue him away from his mind. The author is clearing disclosing how past trauma shapes a person into a shallow pit of loneliness and unworthiness and how such a person can ever overcome it. Giving them titles like toxic, continuously calling the characters and story disgusting doesn’t justify what they are representing. You missed the entire point because you were too busy pointing out the minor defaults of human behaviors and mentalities. The underlying message behind the characters is far more important then their surface level actions. What triggered them he rejects her despite liking her? She got rejected twice but refused to give up? I want you to answer because it’s very simple
(She didn’t give up because she believes in the relationship they had words don’t change realities. She thinks if she goes relentlessly maybe she can reach him. That’s being honest to herself and a true form of care/ he rejected her despite liking her. Because his feelings are irrelevant to him he doesn’t think of himself he is thinking of her how he is not worthy of her not ready for the responsibility you know the phrase “he thinks she deserves far better then him.” Stability doesn’t magically appear it’s built slowly with time and efforts. They are in the midst of wars in their heads with zero clarity and stability to speak of. Because they are simply still growing? You can’t expect them to be mature without experience at all? Have they loved before? No… But the only experience they have is the despair of the past and nothing can make it go away you just have to move on from it and learn you can’t reduce the significance of humans emotions to such titles of “toxicity and ” Disgusting.